Energetic cords are similar to having a fiber optic cord between ourselves and others. Through these cords or connections, energetic information can be shared, or energy can be drawn by one person or the other. Healthy cords share nurturing information and energy. Unhealthy cords can be a huge drain or a means of control and often outlive their usefulness. We have a choice about continuing to stay attached by unhealthy cords. When we give power away to other people because our relationship with self is dysfunctional, we actually allow cords of energy to tie us to those people. You can cut the cords, but unless you resolve the underlying reason why your corded in the first place, the unhealthy cord will come back.
Following are steps to a gentle alternative way of releasing an unhealthy cord:
1. Start with stating the name of the person attached to the energetic cord and ask to be forgiven for all the wrong doings and hurt that you may have committed towards this person knowingly and unknowingly. Then state that you forgive this person for all the wrong doings and hurt that they have committed towards you knowingly and unknowingly.
2. Imagine a circle made from a fine woven silk cord that is in a beautiful natural setting. Visualize sitting in the center of the circle and feeling protected. You are being surrounded with a high frequency pure light.
3. Now visualize the person you want to release sitting in another circle made of cord. Look at this person from your circle and wave good bye! You are gently and peacefully allowing this person their space while affirming your own. Imagine that instead of cutting the cord, it remains whole, disentangled and detached. Once more with love and compassion, say good bye.
The cord is released, with gratitude, move on with your life!